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Hi I am a Christian, a nurse, the mother of two grown children and two grand daughters, one grandson, and 3 dogs. I love people and have a huge heart. So why am I blogging? Well I've been told that I need to publish my writings. This seemed to be the easiest way to do that. Also, I want to get out there and live life to the fullest. Empty nests are great because now I get to explore the world. I'm starting right here on my computer. So come along with me and as I learn to fly we'll soar together!

Thursday, February 9, 2012

04/22/10 growth..


Coming out of the fog.

Not long ago I used to think I had arrived, living the “Christian” life, working, going to church, taking care of my family, giving my time and money to the church, all just the way it was supposed to be.  The perfect picture of a believer, it seemed to be the same as what everyone else was doing.  I was a good person.  I was serving God.

Funny how it had never occurred to me that God had a plan for ‘me’.  I never thought about having a personal ‘calling’, even though thinking back I remember having heard it on occasion.  But I had never personally felt a divine purpose for my life.  I guess I just figured that living the “Christian” life was what He wanted from me. Problem was that I was coasting and I remember that I had even gotten to the point that I thought that I had ‘arrived’.  What folly!

It’s interesting how I somehow became aware of a greater purpose in my life: not sure if it was a gradual process of an “awakening’ but as I look back and reflect I realize that there has been a paradigm shift in my awareness of God and my relationship with Him.  Because as of now all I can think of is to seek His purpose for me specifically as an individual, rather than simply me being part of the general purpose of the church corporately.  I find that my relationship with God has become so much more personal and intense: looking at the gifts and the talents and experiences of my life I see His divine Hand of guidance that has been molding me into the person I am and I see that He is bringing me to becoming the person the He designed me to be.  And all this in spite of my blindness, rebellion, selfish sinful way of believing.  His love is so much more than any love that I understand, or know.  What grace and mercy He has extended to me.  For I know the plans I have for you; to prosper you and not harm you, to give you hope and a future.  All I can say is WOW.  My covenant God. Awesome. 

I see a God thread running throughout my life, and now I have a subtle discontent with simply living the old “Christian” life that I had lived before.  I find a restlessness in me that calls me to use the gifts talents and experiences of my life for His purpose.  So I am in a constant seeking mode, tuning in, if you will, to the Holy Spirit in order to be aware of His direction for me.  It is both a global, and a moment by moment finite awareness.  In this restlessness I am no longer comfortable simply to live my life, rather, I am seeking to be used.  I am more aware of the things that have been given to me and how I can and need to surrender them to Him for His purpose.  I have been learning to be supple in His hands. 

It seems that all along, almost unbeknownst to me, He has used me – thankfully, because otherwise looking back I would have felt that 35 years of being a Christian was wasted on me.  I am so glad that my lack of awareness of Him moving in and through me was not a deterrent for Him to do so.  I am glad that I, having given Him my life, was usable, and that I was able to serve even without knowing it.   But now I am learning to be aware of His presence and His will for me.  I’m seeking to know Him more and more and to be aware of what I am to be used as and/or for.  I am seeking to be more supple, more submitted, and more obedient to Him.  ‘For it’s only in His will that I am free’, to quote a line in a beloved song.  I am finding freedom in obedience to His will.  I have found sanctuary in the understanding that His Spirit has me, uses me, lives in me.

Somehow the results of this living in the awareness of God in my life, tuning in to Him, sort of looks from the outside the same as it did before when I was living the “Christian” life, but where It’s coming from has made all the difference.  I no longer feel as if I am in bondage to rules.  I no longer have the attitude of serving under obligation or to make points with Him or anyone else. There is no longer a feeling of the necessity to live up to any standard or trying to be “good enough”. Also I no longer feel that I am simply coasting either.  I realize that there is no coasting in the Christian walk, if it is in truth and real.  One either grows or stagnates.  All through that time though He can has and will use it for His glory, but my growth was infinitesimal at best. I wonder what fog bank I had wandered into now... and am fully grateful that I have been led out of it.

I am growing, but I am also aware that I have not, nor will I ever, “arrive” in my walk.  I am always going to be a ‘work in progress’, happily becoming more like Him.  I find that in this is contentment because I know I am seeking to live according to His purpose and not simply to exist, or trying to measure up.  I am seeking Him.  I am running after Him.  My Beloved.
There is joy in drawing closer to Him, in seeking His will. 
I have purpose. 
I feel loved.



Apologies for all of the “I”s in this but it is difficult to write from anyone else’s perspective.  The emphasis however was meant to be more on the wonder and beauty of the way our Father walks us through the fogs of life to bring us to Himself.

Jeanne 

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